There is no power like the spoken word. Even the Bible says God created the world and everything by his Word.
When God said "Let there be light, there was light." He created the heavens and stars by his Word.
You must be careful of the words you speak. You can either bless yourself or cross your own behind up by your words and thoughts. Whatever you speak will bring forth life or death.
What this means is that we can build up or tear down. Our words carry weight for the better or worse. What you say and do has an effect on you and others.
Traditional conjure workers know this which is why they are very selective of what they say. Old workers never go around spouting off with the mouth.
Instead they sit there and listen to everything you say. They can read you because your words come from the heart which is tied to your Spirit.
Words can be strongholds so when you have let people knock you down with words cleanse yourself and move on.
If you tear your own self down say something constructive. You must not limit yourself. Drlovebug